Understanding De Facto Parentage in Washington State: A Guide for Families

Introduction: Navigating the Evolving Landscape of Family Law in Washington State

Family law is an evolving landscape in Washington State. One area that has gained significance in recent years is the concept of de facto parentage. In this blog post, we'll explore what de facto parentage means in Washington State and its implications for families and applications for families with innovative family structures.

Key Criteria for Establishing De Facto Parentage in Washington State

In Washington State, the courts consider several factors when determining de facto parentage. These criteria are designed to assess the nature and extent of the parent-child relationship. Some factors that would meet the requisite findings include:

1. Resided with:

  • The individual resided with the child as a regular member of the child’s household for a significant period;

2. Consistent Care and Support:

  • Demonstrating a consistent pattern of caregiving and support for the child.
  • Meeting the child's physical, emotional, and developmental needs over a significant period without expectation of financial compensation.

3. Emotional Bond:

  • Establishing a strong emotional bond with the child, akin to that of a biological parent.
  • Evidence of the child recognizing the individual as a parental figure.
  • The individual holding out the child as the individual’s child.

4. Parental Intent:

  • Showing a genuine intent to act as a parent and assume parental responsibilities.
  • Mutual acknowledgment of the parent-child relationship by both the individual and the child.
  • Another parent of the child fostered or supported the bonded and dependent relationship between the child and the individual.

5. Parental Role in Decision-Making:

  • Involvement in significant decisions related to the child's upbringing, education, healthcare, etc.
  • Evidence of collaboration with the biological parent in making important parenting decisions.

6. Best Interest of the Child:

  • Continuing the relationship between the individual and the child is in the best interest of the child.

De Facto Parentage vs. Guardianship and Adoption

De Facto Parentage vs. Guardianship: De facto parent status is available when a child has an otherwise fit parent and can be granted over the objection of the otherwise fit parent, unlike a minor guardianship, which requires that the child have no fit parent or that the fit parent agrees to the guardianship.

De Facto Parentage vs. Adoption: Adoption is another option for securing parental rights for individuals who are not biological parents. However, it is more time consuming and complicated and involves home visits by social workers to complete. The de facto parentage process does not require home visits by social workers and if all parents agree, can be as easy as filling out a joint petition and agreed orders and submitting them to the court for the court to sign and enter.

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